Ladies and wat?

She was anxious and very detailed. Check the waiting list from time to time. Asking when will be her turn. She reconfirmed that she wants a place facing the window at the smoking area, with a smile on her face.

The waitress told her to be patient again. Might just need around 10 more minutes.
So, she went back to the waiting seats, just next to me.

Suddenly, her handphone rings so, she quickly fished it out from her handbag.
It was her husband, asking where is she.. and most importantly if she manage to get a table. After she told him where she is, her husband appears at the entrance.. walking in with a guest, a Australian, i supposed.

Her husband walks in and straight away put down his huge bag pack and passed it to her wife. And she took it and carried it with both her hands.
He was talking to the Australian, saying that they might need to wait for a while as the restaurant is fulled by the moment. He didn't even bother to introduce his wife to their guest. The Australian was very friendly. He some more asked, "and this is.. erm.. ?" and the woman said "I'm Was.. his wife.."

The husband quickly sit down on the waiting seats, next to me again.
He invites the Australian to sit down too.. but not his wife. He doesn't even bother to see if there is a seat leave for his wife. All he cares was just his own ass.

Three of them were chit chatting while waiting. The husband didn't include the wife in the conversation. She was the one that tried to join in with what they were talking about. Then, the waitress came and asked if they wanna take the table, which is not facing the window. Which mean they cannot enjoy the beautiful nite view outside. The wife politely told the waitress to wait for a moment, as she wants to ask her husband's opinion.

So, she turned back and ask her husband and their guest. Her husband wasn't happy with the idea. He asked his wife to ask how long do they have to wait for the window facing seats. Automatically, the wife replied they have to wait til the people who is currently sitting at that area to finish their foods and pay the bills first. Which in other word, she doesn't know or nobody knows, actually.

Finally, the waitress came and told them tat their table is ready. They were happy.
The husband quickly stand up and follows the waitress to their table. His wife was following behind carrying his back pack. It was heavy, til she said "erm.. ur bag pack" to her husband. Then only he took it from her hands and carry it by himself.

So,
I was sitting there. Witnessing everything.
As I was waiting for a table and Nadiah.
I was thinking.

I personally think the husband was so UNGENTLEMAN !
The more i see it, the more i cannot stand!
The look on his face was so Ego and demanding !

I think he is the one should go to check on the waiting list if he can't wait calmly.
Some more, please lar.. don't ask stupid question can or not ?!
Like asked his wife to ask the waitress, how long do they have to wait for the window facing table..
Luckily, he is a lil smart la..
He din tells his wife to go ask the customers who were eating there, on how much time do they need to finish their foods?
Y he can't offer the seats to their guest and his wife before he sits down?
Y not he, himself carry the bag pack?

I am pissed coz that's not how a man should treat a woman, a wife !
And sad but true, majority of our Malaysia's men are like tat!
I've seen so many lousy men daily. Everywhere.
Gross...

However, I'm lucky enough to see some gentlemen who is still alive in this current world.
They just knew how to treat a woman right.
At least, they open door for the lady to go in first.
Offer the only chair left to the lady and he's ok with the idea of standing at the side.
Using their body language and gestures to let the woman to walk first then only he follows.
Offer a hand to carry what's the woman is holding.
Isn't that nice ?

I don't mean all guys should be perfect. Where women should just shake their legs, waiting for a gentleman to do everything for them.
But i do believe these are just some basics that a man should knows.
It really reflected great on them. U won't lose anything and yet gaining good reputation.
And not giving eyesores to anyone too.
Great!


Me personally, admires all these.
I think gentlemen are so handsome and attractive, despite how his face looks like.
It's really comfortable to be with them.